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Proud to Be a Homemaker and You Should Be Too
Proud to Be a Homemaker and You Should Be Too
When my husband and I made the choice for me to quit my job, we felt that it was best for the entire family. I was certainly not prepared for the reactions it would receive. Not long ago it was normal for mother and child to be together. Somehow that has changed; people cannot seem to wrap their brains around the concept. It’s sad how much I have to defend being “just” a mother. Any person that looks down on motherhood should spend one week caring for a two-year-ancient.
I can proudly say that my family gets three made-from-scratch meals each day. We eat out probably once per month and other than that all meals are prepared by me. I do all the laundry, dishes, and household cleaning. Seventy hours per week are devoted to childcare. My husband would help with the house if I let him, and he cooks dinner whenever I let him. I just gain too much joy from providing a comfortable home to allow him to take any of that away. Thankfully, my husband can see how hard I work. He often tells me that he would never trade jobs with me, that he knows he couldn’t do what I do. To be honest, I couldn’t do his job either.
It’s nice being appreciated, but I’m still curious when things changed. When did it become incorrect for a woman to take care of her family? It is only natural: women are nurturers. I’m convinced that any woman that is comfortable with herself and emotionally healthy gains more satisfaction from caring for others than from anything else. Maybe those gender-roles have some merit. Our hormones are different, giving us different strengths than men. Now, I don’t suggest we go back to pre-suffrage times. But I don’t reckon today’s ways are working, either.
I would not trade what I do for the world. It may seem cliche, but I truly delight in making apple pies (crust and all) and cheesecakes for my family to delight in after the meal I worked on for hours. We always have cookies and breads that I filled with like as I mixed the ingredients. I even take the time to make my own cleaners. Everything I do is for my family. Even my own mother looks down upon this choice. I know that she’s a feminist, and therefore sees the role I’ve chosen as demeaning. But it couldn’t be farther from the truth. I feel more pride now, and receive more respect on a daily basis, than I did when I worked 40 hours a week for an insultingly small paycheck.
I reckon that if any parent, mother or father, wishes to stay home to care for their children, they should be celebrated. Children need consistent like and attention, someone to guide them through childhood so that they may learn to steer by the time they are adults. Families are too broken and that fragmentation is damaging for everyone. Mothers need to be a safe place for children again; a source of comfort and nurturing. I do believe that women are capable in the workplace. Strong, intelligent, dedicated women change the world. But I know that a strong, intelligent, dedicated woman changing a family is just as vital. When the world can see that it doesn’t have to be one or the other — women can do both — then we will be making progress toward a more productive society.
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Do the women of Warren Jeff’s community on TV remind you of Muslim women on Mohammad ?
Question by defOf: Do the women of Warren Jeff’s community on TV remind you of Muslim women on Mohammad ?
Just curious, I see a lot of similarities in the way the timid ones speak highly of Warren Jeffs on TV as do Muslim women about Mohammad. This inspite of the fact that Mohammad considered women as deficient in intelligence.
That Marilyn vos Savant is considered as the world’s most intelligent human being might come as a shocker to Muslims.
Tabari IX:113 “Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur’an.”
Tabari I:280 “Allah said, ‘It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I made her intelligent.’ Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid.”
Sahih al Bukhari
Mohammed questioned some women, “Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half that of a man?” The women said, “yes,” He said, “This is because of the deficiency of the woman’s mind. ” Vol. 3:826
Mohammed to women: “I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than you.” Vol. 2:541
Mohammed said, “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers are women. ” Vol. 1:28, 301; Vol. 2:161; Vol. 7:124
Mohammed said, ” Terrible omen is in the woman, the house and the horse.” Vol. 7:30
Mohammed said, “After me I have not left any affliction more harmful to men than women.” Vol. 7
When the Quranic verse that allows Mohammed to postpone the turn of any wife was revealed, and when Mohammed said that Allah allowed him to marry his adopted son’s wife, Aisha (one of his wives) told him, “O Allah’s Apostle I do not see but that your Lord rushes in pleasing you. ” Vol. 7:48
Source: Hadith (including SAHIH Bukhari )
Best answer:
Answer by Affan
I didn’t realize I was on Yahoo! Sermons.
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Women, isn’t Islam’s defense of women’s rights a great thing?
Question by rachel f: Women, isn’t Islam’s defense of women’s rights a fantastic thing?
“The Prophet Muhammad said about women: “I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you,” and so on. This hadith and others like it were misunderstood by the ignorant. Corrupt people interpreted it in a way that differs from its original intent. Because of their ignorance, their insolence, their stupidity, and because of their enmity towards Islam and Muslims, they turned this hadith into evidence that Islam disgraces women, diminishing her value, and describes her in inadequate terms.”
“These hadiths provide some of the most decisive evidence that Islam protects women and guarantees their rights. Islam has surrounded the woman with a fence of compassion and mercy. It has shown that the twisted nature of women stems from their very creation.”
See? Islam UNDERSTANDS our twisted nature!
“This is why the Prophet said: “When a man calls his wife to fulfill his needs, she must go to him, even if she is busy with the oven.” Imagine this: There is fire in the oven, and she wants to bake bread. But even if she’s busy with this work that cannot be neglected, when he calls her, she must leave the oven and go to her husband. Another hadith says: “She must go to him, even if she is on the back of a camel.” She must go to him, even if she is riding.”
And this, well, wow! Isn’t this a fantastic defense?
http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1483.htm
http://www.memritv.org/clip_transcript/en/1483.htm
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Answer by Heretic-Priestess of Science, AM
Not since its based around a fake belief in god.
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I would like some interpretation of these hadiths by Muslim women (but others also welcome)?
Question by *Weirder-in-Moscow*: I would like some interpretation of these hadiths by Muslim women (but others also welcome)?
1. Women are deficient in intelligence and religion.
In Sahih Al Bukhari’s book, which Muslims consider the most authentic book after the Koran we read, “Allah’s Apostle once said to a group of woman ; “I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious, sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The woman questioned; “O Allah’s Apostle, what is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said; “Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?” They answered in the affirmative. He said; “This is the deficiency of your intelligence…Is not it right that a woman can neither pray nor quick during her menses?” The woman answered in the affirmative. He said: “This is the deficiency in your religion….This Hadith has been agreed upon, which gives it the highest degree of authenticity in Islam. That is why it has been accepted and used by eminent scholars such as Ghazali, Ibn Al Arabi, Razi, and others
2. Women are deficient in gratitude.
In Sahih Al Bukkhari (Part 1, Hadith No. 28) we read, “Women are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the excellent (charitable deeds done them). If you have always been excellent (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking) she will say, “I have never received any excellent from you”
3. Women are likened to a bent rib.
In Sahih Al Bukhari (Part 7, Hadith No. 113) it is stated “The woman is like a rib; if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to get benefit from her, do so while she still has some crookedness.” This Hadith has been agreed upon
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Answer by HMS
I read Arabic and I recognize at least one of these Hadith. I can tell you these are the worst interpretation of these hadith I have ever read. Can you tell me what book or site you got these from?
Butterfl: I expect you and you likes to jump in this band wagon. But Can you provide the source of the book, or site? Clearly Christian/Jewish propaganda are still miss leading all of you. but in the END you only have yourselves to blame. Not even those who misguide you can take the blame for you. Allah’s punishment is severe.
Edit: Ranoush: People like them are Miss leading themselves as the Quran mentioned, they reckon Muslim are as ignorant as their kind. Devil followers are always easily defeated. Ms Butterfl… is trying to convince everyone she is married to a Muslim. Imagine how far the people will go, the will even lie to themselves b/c we are not buying.
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Do Men Expect Meticulous Standards of Beauty, Intelligence, and Charm in a Woman?
Question by Joe: Do Men Expect Meticulous Standards of Beauty, Intelligence, and Charm in a Woman?
Spitzer’s Emporer’s Club says this:
“Our meticulous standards of beauty, intelligence and charm ensure that you always encounter the quality you’ve come to expect in a woman”
Is that what Spitzer expects in a girl?
http://www.postchronicle.com/news/breakingnews/article_212135276.shtml
Is that how Dem governors see women ? Either perfect or not worth their time?
Best answer:
Answer by nacsez
i dont know about anyone else, but i like a excellent down to earth, free willed, not worried to get a small dirty, while remaining intelligent and engaging girl. i dont live in the 50s sorry…
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Article – Sex Trafficking – What do think the world Governments should do to protect women and children?
Question by Emeralddove: Article – Sex Trafficking – What do reckon the world Governments should do to protect women and children?
Perilous Times and Decaying Morality *
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UK Sex trade moves its modern-day slaves into the suburbs*
By David Harrison, Sunday Telegraph
Last Updated: 12:25am GMT 18/02/2007
Criminal gangs are moving sex slaves out of brothels and into private
houses in an attempt to take the trade “underground” and avoid discovery
by the police.
Senior officers are finding an “alarming” number of young women, mostly
east Europeans aged 18 to 25, held captive in privately owned flats and
houses and forced to have sex with up to 30 “clients” a day.
The gangs are moving hundreds of women out of the “overt” sex industry –
massage parlours and other brothels – and into the “covert” industry,
because it is more lucrative, to increase their control over the
victims, and to make it more hard for police to find them.
Graeme Maxwell, Yorkshire police’s deputy chief constable and programme
director for the UK Human Trafficking Centre, said: “The traffickers and
pimps are taking the girls to rented flats and houses in areas all over
the UK where there is a transient population and neighbours don’t really
notice when people go in and out.”
Mr Maxwell said the gangs were “ruthless criminals determined to protect
their income from exploiting and abusing young women”.
The key to finding the criminals and rescuing the women was “local
intelligence”, he said. Beat officers were working to win the trust of
communities and give people the confidence to inform police if they
suspected girls were being held against their will. The trafficked
women, most of whom are lured to Britain with fake promises of jobs as
waitresses or au pairs and are routinely beaten and raped, had been
found in rented homes in city centres, including Birmingham, London and
Sheffield, but also in “leafy suburbs”.
D S Steve Titterton, the trafficking centre’s tactical adviser, said:
“We are finding girls being kept in ’studentland’ and other ‘bedsit’
areas but also in buy-to-let accommodation in smart residential areas
where the neighbours are used to a high turnover of tenants.”
One Ukrainian woman told The Sunday Telegraph last week that she was
duped into coming to Britain on the promise of a job selling ice cream
in London. Instead Tatanya, 25, was taken to a flat in a north London
suburb where she was forced to work as a prostitute from 10am to 10pm
every day and to hand over all of the money to two Albanians, a man and
a woman, towards the £20,000 “cost” of bringing her to England.
Tatanya escaped by jumping from a second-floor window. She went to the
police and, despite death threats to her family in Ukraine, gave
evidence that helped to convict her captors who were jailed for a total
of 25 years.
Police believe the traffickers are going “underground”, in part as a
response to Operation Pentameter, a three-month police crackdown last
year in which 232 suspected traffickers were arrested and 84 women
rescued in nationwide raids on brothels.
Pentameter II, a joint operation with several other European countries,
is to be launched later this year.
Thousands of young women – mostly from eastern Europe – are trafficked
to Britain every year and forced into prostitution, a phenomenon blamed
on European Union expansion, lax immigration controls and the UK’s
growing sex industry.
Concern over the traffickers’ changing tactics comes before a
photographic exhibition on human trafficking which opens at St Paul’s
Cathedral in London this week. The exhibition highlights 21st century
slavery to coincide with the 200th anniversary of the abolition of slavery.
Last month the Government pledged to sign the European Convention
against Human Trafficking, which allows victims to stay in the UK for
six months to recover from their ordeal and prepare to testify against
the traffickers.
Vernon Coaker, the Home Office minister, said that the Government would
launch an anti-trafficking “action plot” next month.
Best answer:
Answer by thetravelinggardener
The only method to prevent such crimes is to make the punishment worse than the profit and since that is impossible, the sex trade will continue to flourish.
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Muslim Matrimonial – Half Our Deen
Muslim Matrimonial – Half Our Deen
What Makes a Muslim Marriage Work: Untying the Social Knot?
For years, perceptions about Muslim marriage revolved around dominant Muslim men as husbands, and submissive Muslim women as wives. For decades, a lot of supposed sacred Muslim marriages hastily turn into empty fulfillments of delegated responsibilities and an evenly vacuous demand for the recognition of equal rights. But, contemporary acuity would tell that modern single Muslims have become more intelligent in defining what a genuine Muslim marriage is really made of.
Muslim marriages, just like other non-Muslim matrimonies, should be founded on faith and dread of God (Iman and Taqwa). Muslim matrimonial rites may be a whole lot different from traditional Catholic matrimonial ceremonies, but they are founded on similar grounds of friendship, honor, and mutual respect. These core Muslim matrimonial values lay the foundation of a stalwart marriage.
It is really surprising that Muslim marriages are viewed in the context of dominance, compliance, and submission. The notion that single Muslim men would pass up on accomplished, intelligent Muslim women do not exactly conform to the known prophetic model where Muhammad was surrounded by witty, dynamic, and independent women. These qualities could in fact translate to better parenting and family-rearing skills.
Since romantic courtship is technically not allowed in Islam, ways of finding the best marital partner for single Muslims have gone through leaps and bounds over the years. Today, the emergence of Muslim matrimonial sites has changed the way that single Muslima find their perfect mates. In 2009, 17% of documented marriages started with online match making sites. This only shows that finding the ideal mate could mean using non-conventional ways, without having to lose decent intentions. With the surfacing of hundreds of Muslim matrimonial sites from different parts of the world, filtering the excellent, the terrible and the hideous could be quite taxing. One way to filter out sites that will give you your time’s worth is to go for paid sites since members here are sure to have paid for a worthy cause — to truly find the right Muslim man or woman whom they could share their whole lives with. Free-to-join sites are usually filled with members who are not really into the real marital ethical ends, and would just be plain online spectators trying to make enticing profiles.
Although there have been heated debates on the viability and credibility of Muslim matrimonial sites, there’s no denying the fact that these modern means of finding the most ideal single Muslim women and Muslim men have delivered results by opening doors to some of the lasting, genuine and most magical Muslim marriages. Halfourdeen.com is one of the few sites that have the most dynamic and diverse set of members who certainly don’t look at Islamic marriage as simple fragile caricatures that can be easily conked out by wrinkles, a few unwanted pounds, some individual quirks, or a petty argument. The active profiles are existent Muslim men and women who don’t consider trivial social diversities as truncheons to debase other Muslim singles.
Regardless of how you cross paths with your future spouse, whether through a fixed marriage, a childhood friend, or through Muslim matrimonial sites, the moral bounds of the best Muslim marriage will always be founded in glorifying the Ultimate being, and becoming a blessing to each other’s lives. Marriage, regardless of race or religion, is certainly not a playfield where one could thoughtlessly pursue his vanities. It should always be a place you can both call home.
Gender Stereotypes – The perception of male and female candidates
Gender Stereotypes – The perception of male and female candidates
Throughout all cultures there is a distinct division between male and female. Gender stereotypes seem to cross cultural borders. Women all seem to have the same stereotypes associated with them particularly Western culture. The same is right for men.
Female Gender Stereotypes
In just about all cultures, women are seen as inferior creatures. They are not as strong and much less intelligent than a man. They are incapable of surviving on their own and prefer to spend their time at home cooking, cleaning and having children. Women are also seen as kinder and gentler than a man is but much more temperamental. Women are considered naggers, talkers, and spenders. In addition women are expected always to look their best to make themselves desirable to man.
Male Gender Stereotypes
Like females, men are also subject to gender stereotypes that seem to cross cultures. They are seen as stronger and more intelligent than women. Men are the breadwinners of the family. They are harsh and somewhat ruthless and seem pre-occupies with either making money or taking part in sexual activities. Men expect to be waited on by their wives and expect their household to follow their rules.
The End of Gender Stereotypes
As society progresses and cultures become more exposed to each other, there is a slow movement away from stereotypes. Today women are known to be quite independent, quite ruthless and willing to leave home to make a living. Men are becoming less of a “king” at home are slowly taking part in the care of the children and the care of the home. Roles are becoming shared instead of separated and societies that are far behind this gender progression are being encouraged to catch up.
For a long time these stereotypes of males and females was practiced diligently by all cultures. With the changes in the economic world and the emphasis society places on education and career women and men are now being forced to establish parallel roles.
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Gender Stereotypes
Gender Stereotypes
Throughout all cultures there is a distinct division between male and female. Gender stereotypes seem to cross cultural borders. Women all seem to have the same stereotypes associated with them particularly Western culture. The same is right for men.
Female Gender Stereotypes
In just about all cultures, women are seen as inferior creatures. They are not as strong and much less intelligent than a man. They are incapable of surviving on their own and prefer to spend their time at home cooking, cleaning and having children. Women are also seen as kinder and gentler than a man is but much more temperamental. Women are considered naggers, talkers, and spenders. In addition women are expected always to look their best to make themselves desirable to man.
Male Gender Stereotypes
Like females, men are also subject to gender stereotypes that seem to cross cultures. They are seen as stronger and more intelligent than women. Men are the breadwinners of the family. They are harsh and somewhat ruthless and seem pre-occupies with either making money or taking part in sexual activities. Men expect to be waited on by their wives and expect their household to follow their rules.
The End of Gender Stereotypes
As society progresses and cultures become more exposed to each other, there is a slow movement away from stereotypes. Today women are known to be quite independent, quite ruthless and willing to leave home to make a living. Men are becoming less of a “king” at home are slowly taking part in the care of the children and the care of the home. Roles are becoming shared instead of separated and societies that are far behind this gender progression are being encouraged to catch up.
For a long time these stereotypes of males and females was practiced diligently by all cultures. With the changes in the economic world and the emphasis society places on education and career women and men are now being forced to establish parallel roles.
Q&A: How should I deal with relatives that claim I’m not ready to be a mom(yet it’s “fine” for my same-age cousin)?
Question by summer07: How should I deal with relatives that claim I’m not ready to be a mom(yet it’s “fine” for my same-age cousin)?
I wrote a lot on this site in the past about being such a responsible-to-a-T 26-yr-ancient person that sadly, has been chastised by others as “not ready” to have the baby I want so terribly.
Well, this Christmas my self esteem (at least as far as the baby situation is concerned) took a turn for the worse. First, my grandma let it slip that my 27-yr-ancient cousin is pregnant…well, she didn’t even tell me, I’m just an overly precocious person that didn’t let anything “baby” related slip my ear lol. This is the SAME cousin that was successfully influenced by our grandmother not to invite me to her wedding two summers ago. Today, the “baby news” started when my grandmother mentioned to my father that my cousin was asking for something bottle-related along with a bunch of other stuff for the “shower”(apparently my dad + others knew but never told me), and I wasn’t gonna let this news get past me this time, so I bluntly blurted out, “She’s pregnant?” My grandmother said yes but curtly tried to change the subject, so I prodded in a sweet voice, “How far along is she?” and again my grandmother gave a small answer then changed the subject.
(Immediately I started texting all my friends to tell them how hurt I felt that yet again, Girl #17395233275825619072 was pregnant and yet again, my grandmother was excluding me from family news) 
Later that same morning, my sister was leaving for work. She works at a daycare and I commented that I’d like to come visit and play with the small kids for a bit. My sister said “yeah right, it’s not fun when you have to change their diapers” but I shrugged and said that part didn’t bother me. Then Grandmother remarked dubiously, “YOU know how to change diapers??”, again insulting my intelligence.
Later today when I talked on the phone with my dad, I mentioned for the umpteenth time my goal of buying a house soon, and how I wanted to have kids in the near future and that it’d be better to have kids at a house than at my 1bd apartment. My dad really mocked my dream of having kids and said “KIDS??? Why bring up KIDS?! Heh you talk about KIDS????” then said in a very slow, condescending voice, “Everybody has their time in life. You are not ready yet. Do not reckon about kids for a long time” — even though he himself conceived ME at age 26! I told him to please stop talking like a middle school health class teacher. I also figured this would be a excellent time to mention that I was a small hurt the way Grandmother mocked me with the diaper comment. He said “LET IT GO, SMILE AND DON’T BOTHER STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF!! WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO DO, ‘ATTACK’ AN 83-YR-OLD WOMAN???!!!” even though “attack” was NEVER my intention! (and ps, she’s 82…NOT 83!)
You can see I’m mad by this. What would be the best way to deal with such an unsupportive condescending family?? And why do they do these things to me?…I’m in a long-term serious relationship with a guy my whole family likes who I hope to marry very soon(the ball’s in his court now)…I have a degree, savings, and am very responsible. WHY does my family seemingly refuse to see me as being anything better than the dorky unlucky retail employee loser I was 4 yrs ago???
storyofthephoto, that is exactly NOT the response I am looking for. How the HECK can you say I’m not ready when you don’t know me??? Are you trying to get on my terrible side?? And no, you’re NOT speaking the “hard truth,” it can’t be the truth if you don’t even know if I’d be ready or not. Yeah maybe YOU were 32 when you had your first pregnancy, but I KNOW that waiting until my 30s is not for me.
yeahme2, I DO want to get married and buy a house but there’s a few things barring that right now. First, my boyfriend is serious & monogamous but is a small frightened of getting married right now, since he was engaged at age 25(nearly 15yrs ago) and that didn’t end so fantastic for him. Second, I’ve been looking at houses but my employment isn’t permanent, even though I have savings + my bf makes over $ 100K/yr. Also, my bf already has a house of his own, so technically if we marry (as I want so terribly) I won’t need to buy a house, just go in with him and pay half of everything. His mortgage+taxes+insurance on his nice house is already cheaper than the rent for my overpriced ripoff 1bd apartment, so paying half of his bills would be CAKE for me.
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Answer by storyinthephoto
relax.
I didnt have my first til 32, my 2nd after i turned 33, YOU have time
you will be more prepared and ready
well you arent ready cause you’re whining to a bunch of strangers who really dont care about your life. i didnt give you the nice sugary answer you wanted so you turn into a bitch and attack, i didnt say YOU WERENT READY NOW IDIOT. I SAID YOU WILL BE BETTER PREPARED WITH AGE, DUH , LEARN TO READ
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What a Woman Wants in a Man – a Must Read by All Men!!
What a Woman Wants in a Man – a Must Read by All Men!!
Women can be often confusing with what they want, their statements might be different then what they truly want. Like many men agree they have a hard time understanding women. So here are a few tips on how to completely know a woman’s mind. An insight into what she wants in a man. So guys take your chances and follow along.
Women look for honesty in a man, they often have their insecurities about a man’s attitude with her or his past relationships. No woman wants a time pass thing well except some, she would expect you to be honest to her and tell her what all she means to you. The other trait women look for in a man is Intelligence. So women only very few would want to go out with men who are not intelligent they want to be a man, who others would be awestruck by. They want someone who can show off his college degrees or honor rolls. The third vital factor is a guy’s financial standing. No woman wants to date a guy who is financially broke until and unless she is really really in like. A woman will be loyal to a man if he goes through the financial crisis after they have been in a relationship, but to start with she would want some sort of financial maturity to exists. Women appreciate sense of humor they want their guys to make others laugh, a shy guy is not every girls dream. They want their guys to make their parents, friends everyone laugh. The other thing that women look for in a man is his etiquettes. No woman wants to date a guy who right on the first date tell her to pay, or anything which is completely out of the blue. Women want their guys to treat them nicely and to follow the decorum properly. It is necessary for them to feel confident they can take their men out with other friends and would not feel embarrassed. Women also want to be physically attracted to a guy, so a sensual cologne would not help, a guys attire also matters so does the model of his car. All these things are which a woman considers. So guys make sure you fulfill most of the requirements before you question your dream woman out.
Believe the claims that Libs are “more educated”?
Question by ShtHammer: Believe the claims that Libs are “more educated”?
Here are “educated” liberals (students and professors) at Johns Hopkins University (one of the best schools in America) trying to attack Ann Coulter.
Can you watch this video and rate the opening statements and the QUALITY of the questions at the end… and STILL believe that there is ANY connection between a college degree and actual INTELLIGENCE?
They offer NO facts for their views… yet feel inspired to call her everything from a Nazi, to “looking like a Nazi”, to being anorexic, a “vicious woman”… a “deeply wounded woman”, “idiot”….
Even 1 “bozo the clown” looking dork wants her to sign a copy of Mein Kompf.
Your thoughts on my observations?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yzyM13mtRm4
I was hoping you all would focus on the LACK of substance and the abundance of empty insults….. instead, you attacked me, Coulter, and even my level of education (and yes, I have a degree).
I reckon….. YOU JUST PROVED my point once more. Thank you.
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Answer by fitchburgposse
I reckon you need more education.
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Worklife Balance: Reduce Stress by Improving Decisions
Worklife Balance: Reduce Stress by Improving Decisions
To many women the following tale will be all too familiar. After a day of office slog you fetch the kids, listen to their tales, rush to the supermarket, get home, supervise homework, manage bath-time, pack sandwiches and tog bags, cook dinner, have the necessary arguments about who can or can’t do what and finally you get the small trolls to bed. Sometime during this treadmill of domestic grind, hubby waltzes in, puts his feet up, watches TV, demands dinner, scoffs it, heads back to the TV and then starts thrusting his crotch at you to let you know that sex is next on his agenda.
We’ve also heard many an Agony Aunt advising us to improve our plotting and time-management or send the kids to friends so that you can fit him in; both literally and figuratively.
I don’t know about you but I get annoyed by the nonsense advocating that women should make more time to keep on meeting everyone else’s needs but their own. For starters what these well-meaning control-freaks don’t get is that plotting or scheduling and organising a date or week-end with him takes more time; the one precious resource that exhausted women are small of.
Never have I heard an Agony Aunt advise women to stop behaving like the family’s slave and only to meet his every need when you too are in the mood. With nearly a quarter of working women bringing home more bacon than their men, isn’t it time we learned that doing it all, to have it all, is too hefty a price to pay for the modicum of financial freedom women have gained?
It would seem that many women are pleased to do things for their children but they draw the line at having to satisfy the regular demands of his broomstick in your back at bedtime.
When it comes to sex, lots of women develop avoidance strategies about going to bed and invent all sorts of things that need doing so that he will be snoring by the time she gets there. Alternatively, women get there first and – even if he arrives a few minutes later – they are masters at pushing out zzz’s pretending to be deep in slumber.
If sex is the best fun we can have with or without our clothes on, then why are women developing crafty strategies to avoid the encounter?
Perhaps matters would improve if women let their men know that males are least sexually desirable when lazing on the sofa while the sports channel deafens the rest of the family.
I’ve often wondered why men endure all that sweat at the gym if that same finely tuned rear-end is hidden by sinking it into the couch cushions thereafter? It’s time that males learnt that women are turned on by men’s butts but only if those same buns are actively behind the vacuum cleaner or can be admired when he’s up to his elbows in soap-suds at the kitchen sink.
So if their sexual demands aren’t met then men should be questioning what they are doing to free up their woman’s energy so that she can delight in an active sex life.
Okay, I know that many women reckon this is unrealistic and dread that not meeting his demands (like cooking, cleaning and picking up after him) will end in divorce.
Many are also concerned that by ignoring his sexual needs he may seek keener pastures. But the truth is that if he’s the type who doesn’t value your mutual commitment, no matter how well serviced he is at home, he’s going to stray anyway.
The more vital question is; when are women going to start considering what they are getting out of the relationship. If he is not an asset physically, emotionally, mentally or spiritually then – like another of your children – he is simply a dependent.
If this is the case then what is there to cling onto in the partnership?
Many women submit to men’s demands because they resign themselves to the lifelong habit of fulfilling society’s unrealistic expectations of what it means to be a woman. The tradition of sacrificing ones needs and wishes for others harks back to the dark ages. Since when is it a woman’s responsibility to work like a man and still be a slave to all the unpaid labour at home?
If women are to strike a better work/life balance then it requires a lot more than some superficial plotting and scheduling. More importantly it’s about making hard choices.
The truth is we either live according to society’s demands – and make ourselves miserable in the process – or please ourselves and place up with other people’s disapproval. A pleased medium is achieved by weighing up our options in each situation and deciding which demands we’re going to follow – our own or those of society.
Constantly compromising yourself to meet other people’s needs is one of the main causes of depression in women. On the other hand only considering yourself will make you self-involved and selfish.
Compromising things that matter to you puts your happiness at risk but there’s also no point in constantly taking him to task about his lack of involvement at home.
When women nag, men retaliate by developing the knack of selective hearing. They are prepared to place up with the whining because they know that afterwards you will continue doing everything for them. So instead of nattering about his shortcomings stop doing the things that irritate you.
In a progressive province in India women became so fed up with men’s behaviour that they successfully organised a no-cooking strike for a few days. There’s nothing like a rumbling tummy to get a man to change his ways and if rolling mass action isn’t for you then declare a personal strike at home. Of course you may have to place up with a filthy house for a week or two but this is a small price to pay for appreciable change.
In her presidential campaign Hillary Clinton appropriated the African saying that it takes a village to raise a child and we women could ease our burden by remembering that it is not a condition of being female to be solely responsible for all and sundry in the family.
Men have the same appendages at the end of their arms as women do and these can be quite handy if place to work at home. Children too need to learn to live independently and the only way for them to ultimately become self-sufficient is to be given more responsibility over time.
Often women unwittingly make a rod for their backs by doing too much for husbands and children. They do so in a desperate bid to gain acknowledgement. All that really happens though is the family gets into the habit of seeing you as a doormat so, instead of appreciation, you’ll just be taken for granted.
By facing hard choices and not doing the things that exhaust you, you can trade-in the rod you’ve made for your back. With the energy you retrieve you could then start calling the shots about if, when and how you may wish to take pleasure in his broomstick.
The real estate mantra ‘location, location, location’ could equally well describe the preoccupation many people have about getting it right in bed; so much so that perfectionism has reduced sex to small more than position, position, position. This kind of pressure is supposedly all about being creative between the sheets … or should I say on the kitchen table, perhaps with you served up as the whores d’vour?
Starting with ancient sex manuals like the Kama Sutra, much has been written about spicing up your sex life. But how many of us get turned on by flipping through a manual while trying to crack a hand-stand in pursuit of a new, more imaginative position?
It stands to reason that the longer you and your partner have been together the more you’re likely to get into the same ancient habits. But, if the routine satisfies both of you, then what’s the issue with sticking to positions like the missionary, spooning or styles inspired by Fido?
The missionary got both its name and a terrible rep because the thought of male-on-top suited the establishment’s thoughts on what was deemed ‘decent’ in the bedroom. Anyone who has tried it will know that the missionary is one of the toughest positions from which to satisfy a woman and it was only relevant during times when delighting in coitus was considered wicked for women.
But if the missionary blows your pubic hair back, chuck out the manuals that suggest otherwise and get on with whatever you consider constitutes a excellent time.
The thought of inventive sex was initiated to break the missionary mould but today the obsession with ‘getting it right’ has made men and women so guarded and self-conscious that it has sucked the creative juices right out of the reality of being satisfactorily laid.
It’s common knowledge that creativity and perfectionism cannot co-exist, so if you are fixated about which body part may or may not be shaved and whether you are revealing your cellulite or that wobbly bum, then no matter what position you take, sex will just end up being a mission.
The amusing thing about vaginas and penises is that both are quite simple tools to operate; neither needs a complicated instruction manual. The problem is not the tools so much as the workman and, as each of us enjoys different things, the only direction required is to guide your partner to the hotspots that turn you on.
Humans have been enjoying sex for thousands of years without having to rely upon manuals, toys and faux nurse’s outfits. So whether you’re getting your rocks off camping in a cave, soaking in a Jacuzzi or having sex on the beach, the only position vital to take is to make sure you’re having fun.
Fun and creativity are products of spontaneity and no one can be spontaneous when we plot a strategy as to where, when, how and for how long we’re going to let our hair down. Structure destroys imagination and when your toes are pinning back your ears, small could be more off-putting than having to turn to page 64 to find out where his arms and legs belong.
Sex manuals may be excellent to spark off some new thoughts but, once you’re all fired up, place the book down and let your creative urges rise. It doesn’t really matter what position you land up in as long as you both delight in getting there.
Do take some precautions though. I knew a couple who had a preference for backseat bonking at insane hours of the morning. On one occasion they chose a silent golf-course parking lot thinking that the only balls in play would be swung by something flimsier than a five-iron. But, upon reaching the crescendo they were unexpectedly applauded by a group of early-rising caddies who were overjoyed by such an extraordinary hole-in-one.
Laughter releases tension and can also ease awkward moments so, if you want him pitching tents in his Boxers, being naturally playful is more likely to get the huge top up than assuming a position.
Performance anxiety affects both men and women making it hard for either to rise to the occasion. Trying too hard will place the kibosh on creativity and this never-ending quest to get sex right is, in fact, the only way to get it really incorrect.
So, for all you’ve ever wanted to know about your position on positions, just question your fertile imagination and let the hay roll from there on.
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Stephanie Vermeulen runs seminars on Applied Emotional Intelligence and Women’s Issues in business and public forums as well as being an inspiring speaker, writer and personal coach. Her books, Kill the Princess: Why Women Still Aren’t Free from the Quest for a Fairytale Life’(USA) / Stitched-up: Who Fashions Women’s Lives?’ (South Africa) & EQ: Emotional Intelligence for Everyone are available from leading bookstores and online through Amazon.com and Kalahari.net. She can be contacted via her website http://www.eqsa.co.za .
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Can any “bi-gender”, “gender fluid” or “genderqueer” people explain to me why you identify that way?
Question by Irish boys help you get lucky!: Can any “bi-gender”, “gender fluid” or “genderqueer” people clarify to me why you identify that way?
How do you know you are these things? What is it about these marks that helps you to identify with them?
These marks weren’t well loved but a few years ago, so if you’re gender identity has been a part of you since birth, what would you have called yourself before these new trendy marks came about?
Someone please clarify to me how you can be “bi-gendered”? We’re ALL a small “bi-gendered” as we all exhibit some qualites of what our society deems as “feminine” and “masculine” because (as I’ve studied in my sociology course) a survey was done asking people what the “ideal woman” was, the “ideal man” was and the “ideal person” was, and guess what? the “ideal person” was a mix of qualities of both “ideal woman” and “ideal man” and “ideal woman” and “ideal man” both had a lot of overlap too. Characteristics that aren’t stereotypically assoicated with just one gender, such as kindness, sense of humor, intelligence, etc.
So I don’t get this whole “bi-gendered” or “genderqueer” thing. Someone clarify this to me.
Lautner, I reckon you’re overexaggerating with your numbers, and second of all this is the first time I have questioned *this* specific question directly to those who use these identities in justifying their reasoning for choosing these identities (and yes I believe adopting these marks is a choice)
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i never understood that either. thanks for asking ill be reading. star for you.
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Women: How do you expect to get paid the same as men?
Question by ABE: Women: How do you expect to get paid the same as men?
Would you pay the same price for a Lamborghini as you would for a Ford?
“Men and women have statistically significant differences in average scores on tests of particular abilities. Studies also illustrate consistently greater variance in the performance of men compared to that of women” — http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intelligence_quotient#Sex_.28Gender.29
Another study from the British Journal of Psycology:
“In a study accepted for publication by the British Journal of Psychology, Dr. Paul Irwing (Manchester Business School, Senior Lecturer in Organizational Psychology) and Prof. Richard Lynn (University of Ulster, Professor Emeritus) conclude that men are on average five points ahead on IQ tests. The study also found that men outnumbered women in increasing numbers as intelligence levels rise. There were twice as many with IQ scores of 125, a level typical for people with first-class degrees. When scores rose to 155, a level associated with genius, there were 5.5 men for every woman”
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Answer by akaMaryn
We know guys have certain strengths, both physical and mental, which on the average exceed that of the female. But females, too, have physical and mental strengths which exceed that of the male. What we seek is for the work females do to be valued in the same way as that done by males.
Isn’t caring for the world’s children and sick, for example, as vital as raising cattle or manufacturing cars?
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Q&A: Why did Prophet Muhammad say that women are deficient in intelligence & religion & majority in Hell?
Question by Rene: Why did Prophet Muhammad say that women are deficient in intelligence & religion & majority in Hell?
Prophet Muhammad says that women are deficient in intelligence, so they’re half a man’s witness, deficient in religion & majority of the inmates of Hell are also women!
Sahih Bukhari,
Volume 1, Book 6, Number 301:
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
Once Allah’s Apostle went out to the Musalla (to offer the prayer) o ‘Id-al-Adha or Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, “O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women).” They questioned, “Why is it so, O Allah’s Apostle ?” He answered, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The women questioned, “O Allah’s Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said, “Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?” They answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn’t it right that a woman can neither pray nor quick during her menses?” The women answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her religion.”
Is this a excellent opinion to hold about women?
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Answer by Crystal
He probably said it because he didn’t know any better. I reckon it’s amusing that men are thought of the superior being. … guess I am off to hell.
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Why are women supposed to be deficient in intelligence?
Question by NONAME: Why are women supposed to be deficient in intelligence?
A Sahih hadith from Sahih Bukhari!
Volume 1, Book 6, Number 301:
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
Once Allah’s Apostle went out to the Musalla (to offer the prayer) o ‘Id-al-Adha or Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, “O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women).” They questioned, “Why is it so, O Allah’s Apostle ?” He answered, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The women questioned, “O Allah’s Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said, “Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?” They answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn’t it right that a woman can neither pray nor quick during her menses?” The women answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her religion.”
@Ibrahim: Nice way to twist words! Muhammad says that this is because women curse frequently & are ungrateful to their husbands!
@Adore me: You were furious with me for suggesting Muslim poverty & backwardness is due to Islam!
Now your Prophet says women are less intelligent!
@Adore me: We’re the same gender sweetheart!The Prophet didn’t call ME stupid, he called all women!You & me & 3billion + others!
@Adore me:
The Quran chapter on women says this also:
1) Give lewd women life imprisonment! Quran 4:15
2) Beat wife-4:34
Pity that your religion doesn’t consider yourself as intelligent as you do!
Also, there are more women than men in the non Muslim West, please check yourself as you don’t trust my statistics!
Pak has 106 men for 100 women
Bangladesh has 105
Turkey has 103
Iran has 103
Albania has 104
Algeria has 102
Egypt has 102!
So you see its the West where women are more in number!
Also, in Buddhist nations like Sri Lanka, Thailand, Burma, Laos Cambodia, Japan etc!
@Adore me: Over 90%+ women in Pakistan are beaten by their husbands!
Lucky your mom is among the 10% fortunate women!
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Women are so ill treated in Muslim nations that they don’t even outnumber men!
Google list of countries by sex ratios & see!
@Adore me: That verse 4:15 talks only about women being given life imprisonment! Pity!
@Adore me: Pity! Quran says “talk, separate & BEAT!”
The Quran is extremely clear!
@Adore me: So you agree on wife beating? Then why stay in a nation which calls wife beating by the unholy name “spousal abuse”?
Go back tp Pakistan, where 90% men wife beat!
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Answer by Recessed
so they can cook dinner and take care of the kids
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Why did Prophet Muhammad call women deficient in intelligence?
Question by Kebab: Why did Prophet Muhammad call women deficient in intelligence?
Sahih Bukhari
Volume 1, Book 6, Number 301:
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
Once Allah’s Apostle went out to the Musalla (to offer the prayer) o ‘Id-al-Adha or Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, “O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women).” They questioned, “Why is it so, O Allah’s Apostle ?” He answered, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The women questioned, “O Allah’s Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said, “Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?” They answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn’t it right that a woman can neither pray nor quick during her menses?” The women answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her religion.”
If this is right, why are the majority of criminals globally men? How did Khadija get to become one of Arabia’s richest, if she was so stupid?
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Answer by The Nomad Reckon Tank
scientific facts..
Hormone fluctuation
Mood swinging
less neurons
more emotional
all the above facts clearly indicates defficientcy in intelligence. If you feel its all incorrect, could you tell me how many women judges are there in USA and how many women president have ruled in USA??
The fact that SOME women are more intelligent than SOME men does not change this reality in general. There are exceptions to nearly all rules.
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Question by magnetbox: For the women–do you like using a strap-on, on your partner?
I am hoping the intelligence quotient of modern society is high enough now, to realize that women “taking on the man’s role” (via strap-on) does not mean the recipient is gay or bisexual or even necessarily submissive. For example, many women also delight in that kind of penetration, but it does not make them gay. This is an equal opportunity thing, so let’s hope the ignorant stereotypes don’t invade this question.
Anyhow, ladies, do you delight in being the one to penetrate? Is it more about the role-reversal, domination stuff, etc, or more that he really likes the sensation and you aim to please? Or both, for you?
Could we get some more answers to this question?
I know this is a “hush-hush” topic but this is the internet, there is plenty of anonymity.
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Answer by soisitok
Yes, I have tried this once. I must admit that it was fun.
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Muslim women, do you believe that you’re deficient in intelligence as these Hadiths & Quranic justification?
Question by Boomooloo: Muslim women, do you believe that you’re deficient in intelligence as these Hadiths & Quranic justification?
That is what the Prophet Muhammad said in numerous Sahih hadiths, & also justified it through the Quranic verse which says that the witness of a woman is worth half that of a man!
So its not just the hadiths, also the Quran 2:82, which Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) justified on the basis of women’s supposed deficiency in intelligence!
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
Once Allah’s Apostle went out to the Musalla (to offer the prayer) o ‘Id-al-Adha or Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, “O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women).” They questioned, “Why is it so, O Allah’s Apostle ?” He answered, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The women questioned, “O Allah’s Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said, “Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?” They answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn’t it right that a woman can neither pray nor quick during her menses?” The women answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her religion.”
Sahih Bukhari 1:6:301
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri
On ‘Id ul Fitr or ‘Id ul Adha Allah’s Apostle (p.b.u.h) went out to the Musalla. After finishing the prayer, he delivered the sermon and ordered the people to give alms. He said, “O people! Give alms.” Then he went towards the women and said. “O women! Give alms, for I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-Fire were you (women).” The women questioned, “O Allah’s Apostle! What is the reason for it?” He answered, “O women! You curse frequently, and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. O women, some of you can lead a cautious wise man astray.” Then he left. And when he reached his house, Zainab, the wife of Ibn Masud, came and questioned permission to enter It was said, “O Allah’s Apostle! It is Zainab.” He questioned, ‘Which Zainab?” The answer was that she was the wife of Ibn Mas’ub. He said, “Yes, allow her to enter.” And she was admitted. Then she said, “O Prophet of Allah! Today you ordered people to give alms and I had an ornament and intended to give it as alms, but Ibn Masud said that he and his children deserved it more than anyone else.” The Prophet answered, “Ibn Masud had spoken the truth. Your husband and your children had more right to it than anyone else.”
Sahih Bukhari 2:24:541
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri
The Prophet said, “Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?” The women said, “Yes.” He said, “This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.”
Sahih Bukhari 3:48:826
What are your opinions on these please? Its not just hadiths, also Quran which says one man=two women as witnesses, which Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) uses here!
Please know this, I do not mean to offend anyone, I just want clarifications!
@Uncommon Sense: I’m not a Christian Uncommon sense, I find Christianity just as terrible as Islam!
@Dandoon: Never mind where I got this from, answer my question please!
@Uncommon sense: What exposed???I quoted the Quran & Sahih hadiths, are people going to leave Islam after I exposed its misogyny? I guess not!
So wherever I got my thoughts from, as long as I quote the Quran & Sahih hadiths, why should I be ashamed?
The truth is te truth, no matter who utters it! 
Best answer:
Answer by Uncommon Sense
I’m not a Muslim woman, so i’l let them answer.
But questioner: What do you reckon of Christian women duped into worshipping a man?
Just curious.
May Allah Guide us all.
@ Questioner: I just followed that link lmmfao!!!
Are you sure you feel that way about Christianity too? Find a website to give you a better opinion if you still can’t reckon for yourself.
Are you really going to leave this question here after being exposed like that?
@ Answerer#2, excellent job.
Edit: Btw Quran 2:82 :But those who have faith and work rightousness, they are companions of the Garden: Therein shall they abide(for ever).
Thanks for coming out
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You can Improve your Intelligence
You can Improve your Intelligence
There have been raging debates over whether a person’s Intelligence is hereditary or a result of the environment. Intelligence is simply a person’s general mental ability. The hereditists contend that a person is born with his or her intelligence and it is inherited from the parents. This school of thought attributes intelligence differentials across different sections of people to a linear correlation between parents and their offspring i.e. if a person’s parent is intellectually weak, that person will also be intellectually weak thus, efforts to increase the intelligence such a person are insignificant. Hereditary intelligence apologists also base their arguments on general gender and racial intelligence differentials. They argue that generally, males are more intelligent than women and that; whites are generally more intelligent than blacks.
The other side of the intelligence debate is the argument that a person’s intelligence is concomitant with his environment. The proponents of this theory, especially social scientists use it to advance the cause for social and economic equality among communities and races. They contend that people from poor economic and social backgrounds are less intelligent in comparison with their wealthy counterparts.
There is glaringly a gem with a person’s intelligence. In the social sciences quotas, intelligence accounts for academic and economic success of individuals and the more one is intelligent, the more one will achieve. The environmental account of intelligence includes but not restricted to; fetal environment, social, economic and political environment. The fetal environment, they argue are the conditions a fetus is subjected to and according to environmental theory, is responsible for the degree of a person’s intelligence. The economic, social, political environments are the corporeal conditions a person faces on earth that can have a bearing on his or her level of intelligence.
The major question here is whether intelligence is by nature or nurture. If it is by nature, a person can be intelligent irrespective of the fetal, social, economic or political environments. If on the other hand it is nurtured, the nature debate is of not essence at all.
To address this question, one has to ponder about this: are people born more intelligent or less intelligent than others? The answer to this could yes; every one is born with a measure of intelligence different from another since children have variations in abilities to learn and know. Two children of the same age subjected to the same fetal, economic, social conditions can not have the same level of understanding. Twins can not for example learn to say “daddy” or “mummy” at the same time, though they are exposed to the same conditions of existence. In this case, the intelligence differentials in babies can not be clarified by appealing to the fetal or social environments the babies are exposed to because they are the same. This argument leans towards the nature argument because the intelligence variations in twins can only be clarified by the variations in genetic factors inherent in these babies.
I said earlier that every individual is born with a certain measure of intelligence but that measure develops and grows as each person also grows at a certain rate and to a certain limit. Therefore, it is possible for a person with a comparatively low level of intelligence to attain comparatively attain a higher level of intelligence and at a higher rate. At this stage, environmental exposures play a role. Therefore, a higher measure of intelligence at birth does not robotically translate into a higher level of intelligence on maturity.
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Mail Order Brides – Could International Dating Work For You?
Mail Order Brides – Could International Dating Work For You?
If you havenât already given thought to international dating or âmail order bridesâ you really should. Why limit yourself to women within a 10, 25 or 50 mile radius of your home? Why limit yourself to just women in your own country? Expand your horizons and your options and open your mind to the possibility that the woman of your dreams might just live in another country.
The internet has opened up a whole new world of possibilities for discriminating men who simply arenât ready to settle for the meager sampling of women that are available in their local area. The have gone beyond simple internet dating sites where the women are in high demand due to their small numbers and the number of men competing for their attention are many.
Instead, intelligent men are turning in droves to International Dating and finding that there is a whole new world out there of women who are keen to correspond with them. Gorgeous women who are sincere in their desire to build a meaningful, loving relationship with honest, intelligent men.
These women are typically from countries where the ratio of men to women leaves them with fewer choices when it comes to finding a compatible mate than in your own country. Due to this fact you will find that these women may be more attentive and genuine than what you might be used to. There are typically fewer âgamesâ played and honesty, like and loyalty is rewarded in like kind by these women.
The simple truth is that if you start your search for a mate through International Dating channels you will find that the caliber of women that you will have to choose from will far exceed what you will find available to you if you stick to women even in your own country. For instance, the women of Russia and Ukraine are typically all college educated minded man and typically look for a stable man ten or more years older than themselves.
Of course, the only downside of International Dating is the distance between yourself and these womenâ¦.both literally measured in miles, and the cultural distance. Both can easily be overcome given time and some knowledge. With the price of air travel dropping every month it is nothing to travel to some of these countries and spend time with the woman of your dreams. For less than the cost of a trip to any one of the well loved tourist destinations it is possible to cement the bond between you and a woman that is everything that you have ever hoped for in a mate.
Knowledge is the only thing that will help you to overcome the cultural differences that often unintentionally ruin what in reality is a match made in heaven. Misunderstandings and unintentional faux pas can often lead a couple to believe that their potential mate isnât what they first appeared to be. This is a sad truth that I have often seen played out time and time again. But with a small knowledge and understanding that these women come from a different culture where certain topics simply arenât discussed or where the difference between certain words are night and day, it is simple to avoid these relationship killers.
Knowledge is power and knowing where to look for the woman of your dreams can make all the difference in the world, my friend. Open your mind to the possibilities of International Dating and see if you will ever settle for anything small of one of the most gorgeous, intelligent, loving women that you could ever imagine.
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Q&A: Women are lacking in intelligence and cannot practice religion during their menses-thus saith Allah’s Apostle
Question by The Poor Widow: Women are lacking in intelligence and cannot practice religion during their menses-thus saith Allah’s Apostle
Volume 1, Book 6, Number 301:
Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudri:
Once Allah’s Apostle went out to the Musalla (to offer the prayer) o ‘Id-al-Adha or Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, “O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women).” They questioned, “Why is it so, O Allah’s Apostle ?” He answered, “You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you.” The women questioned, “O Allah’s Apostle! What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?” He said, “Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?” They answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn’t it right that a woman can neither pray nor quick during her menses?” The women answered in the affirmative. He said, “This is the deficiency in her religion.”
I have quoted my source…Muhammed himself says hell is mostly full of women.
Will any Muslim deny that, if hell is mostly women, their Momma could very well be destined to roast with the rest of these women who are deficient in both intelligence and religion?
PLEASE??
Maybe I ought to add that I am a woman, and a Christian…
And YES…I am glad I am not a Muslim, and that I have the freedom to CHOOSE for myself!!
Best answer:
Answer by eantaelor
ehh…what did he know.
What do you reckon? Answer below!
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