Q&A: How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman”? I’m 6′1″, female!?

Question by Aviation747: How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman”? I’m 6′1″, female!?
As seen in the media among other places, it would appear the “ideal” weight for a woman is somewhere around 115-130 (in general). Yet, I’m not in this range. I’m a 21 year ancient female who’s 6′1″ (yes, really; my mother was 6′0″ and my father was 6′4″). I’m not, nor will I ever BE 115-130. I hover around 157, generally. Yes, I know, that sounds HUGE, doesn’t it? Despite being tall, because of that number on a scale (tho I AM really health and take care of myself physically & nutritionally), I’ve been called stout my ENTIRE life. Granted, it was much worse in high school and lower, but, when it comes to dates, it’s still an issue. Even now, in university, I have distress getting dates because, probably half the guys I’ve met, have said “well, I’d date you if you were atleast 4 inches shorter, and 30lbs lighter.” It’s just NOT going to happen. In fact, if I went below 140 I’d be underweight.

Anyway, what are your suggestions for combating or dealing with these rude remarks? With more than half of my friends (aged 20-25) already married, it’s depressing sometimes when I can never so much as get a date, much less a steady boyfriend. I AM confident, I DO like my body, and I don’t MIND being single but to add to all my problem’s, whenever I can possibly get my “first serious boyfriend” (pathetic, eh?), I’ll have to tell him I’ve only had 1 kiss before, and I’m still a virgin. THAT will probably be the icing on the cake that scares the guy off, if he even gets that far. It’s just, frustrating. Aparently even my “excellent points” that people have said (“gorgeous enough to be a model; greatest long leg’s I’ve ever seen” <----not being conceited, they are real compliments I've gotten) aren't enough to trump how tall I am, how much I weigh (which, again, isn't really OVERWEIGHT; just SOUNDS large), and the fact I've had so small experience romance-wise.

Anywayy...sorry for blabbing! Tips? Advice? If you're similar to me, how did you manage to not let these comments get to you some days (like today (me))?

Best answer:

Answer by cherbear
Why would you be offended by that. They are millions of woman that are never gonna be that weight. I am surely one of them. Your weight is based on your height. It will clearly be unhealthy for someone with your height to be that small. I’m 5′8 and I know it is not healthy for me to be 115-130. My ideal weight is 135-150. And i’m proudly in that range. Be proud of your body. If your over weight then do what is necessary to change it. If your not then be content.

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How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman”? I’m 6′1″, female!?

Question by Aviation747: How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman”? I’m 6′1″, female!?
As seen in the media among other places, it would appear the “ideal” weight for a woman is somewhere around 115-130 (in general). Yet, I’m not in this range. I’m a 21 year ancient female who’s 6′1″ (yes, really; my mother was 6′0″ and my father was 6′4″). I’m not, nor will I ever BE 115-130. I hover around 157, generally. Yes, I know, that sounds HUGE, doesn’t it? Despite being tall, because of that number on a scale (tho I AM really health and take care of myself physically & nutritionally), I’ve been called stout my ENTIRE life. Granted, it was much worse in high school and lower, but, when it comes to dates, it’s still an issue. Even now, in university, I have distress getting dates because, probably half the guys I’ve met, have said “well, I’d date you if you were atleast 4 inches shorter, and 30lbs lighter.” It’s just NOT going to happen. In fact, if I went below 140 I’d be underweight.

Anyway, what are your suggestions for combating or dealing with these rude remarks? With more than half of my friends (aged 20-25) already married, it’s depressing sometimes when I can never so much as get a date, much less a steady boyfriend. I AM confident, I DO like my body, and I don’t MIND being single but to add to all my problem’s, whenever I can possibly get my “first serious boyfriend” (pathetic, eh?), I’ll have to tell him I’ve only had 1 kiss before, and I’m still a virgin. THAT will probably be the icing on the cake that scares the guy off, if he even gets that far. It’s just, frustrating. Aparently even my “excellent points” that people have said (“gorgeous enough to be a model; greatest long leg’s I’ve ever seen” <----not being conceited, they are real compliments I've gotten) aren't enough to trump how tall I am, how much I weigh (which, again, isn't really OVERWEIGHT; just SOUNDS large), and the fact I've had so small experience romance-wise.

Anywayy...sorry for blabbing! Tips? Advice? If you're similar to me, how did you manage to not let these comments get to you some days (like today (me))?

Best answer:

Answer by cherbear
Why would you be offended by that. They are millions of woman that are never gonna be that weight. I am surely one of them. Your weight is based on your height. It will clearly be unhealthy for someone with your height to be that small. I’m 5′8 and I know it is not healthy for me to be 115-130. My ideal weight is 135-150. And i’m proudly in that range. Be proud of your body. If your over weight then do what is necessary to change it. If your not then be content.

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Is there an alternative for women like David Deangelo’s “Double Your Dating” for men?

Question by jamie_sean_carter: Is there an alternative for women like David Deangelo’s “Double Your Dating” for men?
Everything David says about attracting women is soo right and i wanted to know if there is something women can listen to know how to attract men, know mes psychology etc

Best answer:

Answer by davey_dangerously
Read the book The Rules. He got a lot of thoughts from it, some of the rules are exactly the same for men and women, like rarely returning calls and being hard to get. Also, get Dave’s book, because nearly all of it can be used as a women to pull men.

What qualities make a guy desireable? He should not be egotistical, care about others, have a life and goals outside of you (you don’t want a stalker or a ‘clingy’ guy, do you?), well traveled/educated, a excellent cook, and so on. Basically, take these fundamentals you find in Rules and DDA’s material, and SPIN THEM AROUND and give them to YOURSELF.

And, please never mention David again. You’ll make him well loved and spoil his works.

Or do what Dave Chapelle suggests; “make him a sandwhich, play with his balls, and try not to talk so much.” He’ll like ya and it requires much less reading.

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Q&A: How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman”? I’m 6′1″, female!?

Question by Aviation747: How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman”? I’m 6′1″, female!?
As seen in the media among other places, it would appear the “ideal” weight for a woman is somewhere around 115-130 (in general). Yet, I’m not in this range. I’m a 21 year ancient female who’s 6′1″ (yes, really; my mother was 6′0″ and my father was 6′4″). I’m not, nor will I ever BE 115-130. I hover around 157, generally. Yes, I know, that sounds HUGE, doesn’t it? Despite being tall, because of that number on a scale (tho I AM really health and take care of myself physically & nutritionally), I’ve been called stout my ENTIRE life. Granted, it was much worse in high school and lower, but, when it comes to dates, it’s still an issue. Even now, in university, I have distress getting dates because, probably half the guys I’ve met, have said “well, I’d date you if you were atleast 4 inches shorter, and 30lbs lighter.” It’s just NOT going to happen. In fact, if I went below 140 I’d be underweight.

Anyway, what are your suggestions for combating or dealing with these rude remarks? With more than half of my friends (aged 20-25) already married, it’s depressing sometimes when I can never so much as get a date, much less a steady boyfriend. I AM confident, I DO like my body, and I don’t MIND being single but to add to all my problem’s, whenever I can possibly get my “first serious boyfriend” (pathetic, eh?), I’ll have to tell him I’ve only had 1 kiss before, and I’m still a virgin. THAT will probably be the icing on the cake that scares the guy off, if he even gets that far. It’s just, frustrating. Aparently even my “excellent points” that people have said (“gorgeous enough to be a model; greatest long leg’s I’ve ever seen” <----not being conceited, they are real compliments I've gotten) aren't enough to trump how tall I am, how much I weigh (which, again, isn't really OVERWEIGHT; just SOUNDS large), and the fact I've had so small experience romance-wise.

Anywayy...sorry for blabbing! Tips? Advice? If you're similar to me, how did you manage to not let these comments get to you some days (like today (me))?

Best answer:

Answer by cherbear
Why would you be offended by that. They are millions of woman that are never gonna be that weight. I am surely one of them. Your weight is based on your height. It will clearly be unhealthy for someone with your height to be that small. I’m 5′8 and I know it is not healthy for me to be 115-130. My ideal weight is 135-150. And i’m proudly in that range. Be proud of your body. If your over weight then do what is necessary to change it. If your not then be content.

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How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman” & my height? I’m 6′1″, female!?

Question by Aviation747: How to combat rude remarks about not being at the “ideal weight for a woman” & my height? I’m 6′1″, female!?
As seen in the media among other places, it would appear the “ideal” weight for a woman is somewhere around 115-130 (in general). Yet, I’m not in this range. I’m a 21 year ancient female who’s 6′1″ (yes, really; my mother was 6′0″ and my father was 6′4″). I’m not, nor will I ever BE 115-130. I hover around 157, generally. Yes, I know, that sounds HUGE, doesn’t it? Despite being tall, because of that number on a scale (tho I AM really health and take care of myself physically & nutritionally), I’ve been called stout my ENTIRE life. Granted, it was much worse in high school and lower, but, when it comes to dates, it’s still an issue. Even now, in university, I have distress getting dates because, probably half the guys I’ve met, have said “well, I’d date you if you were atleast 4 inches shorter, and 30lbs lighter.” It’s just NOT going to happen. In fact, if I went below 140 I’d be underweight.

Anyway, what are your suggestions for combating or dealing with these rude remarks? With more than half of my friends (aged 20-25) already married, it’s depressing sometimes when I can never so much as get a date, much less a steady boyfriend. I AM confident, I DO like my body, and I don’t MIND being single but to add to all my problem’s, whenever I can possibly get my “first serious boyfriend” (pathetic, eh?), I’ll have to tell him I’ve only had 1 kiss before, and I’m still a virgin. THAT will probably be the icing on the cake that scares the guy off, if he even gets that far. It’s just, frustrating. Aparently even my “excellent points” that people have said (“gorgeous enough to be a model; greatest long leg’s I’ve ever seen” <----not being conceited, they are real compliments I've gotten) aren't enough to trump how tall I am, how much I weigh (which, again, isn't really OVERWEIGHT; just SOUNDS large), and the fact I've had so small experience romance-wise.

Anywayy...sorry for blabbing! Tips? Advice? If you're similar to me, how did you manage to not let these comments get to you some days (like today (me))?

Best answer:

Answer by T-shirt
Don’t fret over any remarks – it is just hot air. You can go on a dating site (eHarmony for one) and meet some wonderful guys. Look around you when you are out – couples of all sizes and shapes are together. It is personality, interest in others and being upbeat that attracts others. Best wishes.

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Q&A: why do black men hate when black women date “white men”?

Question by BEAUTYFULL: why do black men despise when black women date “white men”?
me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a “white man” i do not know why black men and some black women look at me an my man with despise they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i like interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i like black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in like with my man i despise the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?

Best answer:

Answer by SnOw_FlAkE_sWeEt
don’t know. but they have problems. what does it matter? that’s about the same as being racist. Sometimes, you just have to ignore people like that & do what you know is right. Excellent Luck.

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why do black men hate when black women date “white men”?

Question by BEAUTYFULL: why do black men despise when black women date “white men”?
me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a “white man” i do not know why black men and some black women look at me an my man with despise they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i like interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i like black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in like with my man i despise the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?

Best answer:

Answer by SnOw_FlAkE_sWeEt
don’t know. but they have problems. what does it matter? that’s about the same as being racist. Sometimes, you just have to ignore people like that & do what you know is right. Excellent Luck.

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why do black men hate when black women date “white men”?

Question by BEAUTYFULL: why do black men despise when black women date “white men”?
me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a “white man” i do not know why black men and some black women look at me an my man with despise they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i like interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i like black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in like with my man i despise the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?

Best answer:

Answer by SnOw_FlAkE_sWeEt
don’t know. but they have problems. what does it matter? that’s about the same as being racist. Sometimes, you just have to ignore people like that & do what you know is right. Excellent Luck.

Give your answer to this question below!

why do black men hate when black women date “white men”?

Question by BEAUTYFULL: why do black men despise when black women date “white men”?
me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a “white man” i do not know why black men and some black women look at me an my man with despise they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i like interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i like black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in like with my man i despise the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?

Best answer:

Answer by SnOw_FlAkE_sWeEt
don’t know. but they have problems. what does it matter? that’s about the same as being racist. Sometimes, you just have to ignore people like that & do what you know is right. Excellent Luck.

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How do I move on from a “not so there” relationship?

Question by lusciousm82: How do I go on from a “not so there” relationship?
I was seeing a guy 7 months ago, on the 2nd date we had sex right before he left the states to go overseas. I guess I really didn’t “know” him that well, we both went to high school together, but we never talked, so, yeah. Anyways, I was friends with him on facebook, but then he deleted me because he said I was being “obssessive and possessive.” I was just writing him messages how I missed him, how he was doing, etc. I posted a comment as a joke, “where’s your woman” on his page, then he got pissed and deleted me, I apologized, he wouldn’t take me back. Anyways I found out he got married last month. I was shocked, because I had no thought he was seeing someone. I just can’t seem to go on, probably because I lost my virginity to him, but damn, I keep thinking about what I couldn’ve done to make him like him and sometimes I start crying. Any advice?

Best answer:

Answer by LIl Dancer
Get out and meet new people. He went on their is nothing you can do so my advice is to get out and hang with friends try to meet someone new and just let him go.hope this helps.

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why do black men hate when black women date “white men”?

Question by BEAUTYFULL: why do black men despise when black women date “white men”?
me as a black women who is in a longterm relationship with a “white man” i do not know why black men and some black women look at me an my man with despise they roll there eyes at us where ever we go!! i like interacial relationships i have never dated inside my race but i like black men its just not were my heart is i do not date white men for money or because of skin color i truely am in like with my man i despise the fact that some black people will not acept me because of my man is white!! i go on double dates with black men with white women an white men with black women i find it intersting and fun or adventurst to date outside my race why do they have a problem with this?

Best answer:

Answer by SnOw_FlAkE_sWeEt
don’t know. but they have problems. what does it matter? that’s about the same as being racist. Sometimes, you just have to ignore people like that & do what you know is right. Excellent Luck.

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Should I contact the “other woman”?

Question by Nina: Should I contact the “other woman”?
I recently found out that my BF of 2 years cheated on me with a ex-GF while I was a work on the night shift last summer (right after we bought into our house together). He told me it was a one time deal and he told me her first name. I was able to figure out what her last name is and of course they are MySpace buddies. I was able to look at her profile and she is not the best looking girl at all. Should I contact her to hear her side and to question her if it was just a one time deal? I also recently found out that my BF has been visiting sites such as “Adult Friend Finder.com” and other dating web sites. I do not know if he has pursued any of these girls, or even contacted them, but I would assume so.

I know he is scum, but I am stuck in this situation right now because I lost my job and I do rely on his help for bills. I do have every intention on leaving him once I get my self back on my feet. But right now it is not feasible for me to leave him.

I do but, not want him to continue to cheat on me while we are “together”, mainly because I do not want my health to be at risk, at this point I could care less if his health is at risk.

Any advice would be fantastic!
Before I found out about his cheating, we were talking about getting married, we even went to go look at rings. So at that point, I did like him. and even after I found out, I thought we could work it out and that this would just make us stronger. But since I found out he is going to dating websites and other sites like that, I am pretty much done. I shouldn’t have to deal with that type of BS. At this point, I can not say that I do like him anymore, even though he did mention marriage again; I flat out told him that he lost all my trust, and I do not know how long it will take to regain it and that we both need to work on regaining the trust. He said ok and that he understands and that we should take it slowly. And now I found out that he is just playing games.

Best answer:

Answer by Lovely lady
If you are contacting her that would boost her ego and that means you are the other woman if you like him find another way to work it out.

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Women On Dating What The Ladies Say About Relationships

Women On Dating What The Ladies Say About Relationships

Here’s the lowdown on women on dating. Ladies like to talk a lot about a lot of things. Guys, on the other hand, don’t tend to have heart to heart discussions with each other about their relationships. A typical discussion might involve how’s it going? Fine.

Women are different. They approach relationships both with their female friends and with men differently. Here’s how women on dating goes. This is an inside look for all of you guys out there who wonder what the gals really say when they are chatting among themselves.

1.    Will he commit? Many women on dating wonder whether the man they’re seeing is in it for the long haul or just trying to get into her bed. Is he ready to give up all other women at least for the time being to have a monogamous relationship with her? Women dish on this subject more than any other.  

2.    Is he still interested? Once they have got you on the hook, women want to know whether you have maintained your interest in them or if you have a wandering eye. They’ll dissect every small mannerism and experience you have to try to figure out whether you are still interested. In addition, what is an appreciative glance at an attractive woman will be interpreted as a chance that you’ll break up with her. If you want her to know that you’re still interested, let her know frequently. That will give her less to talk about with her friends.

3.    Can I get back together with my ex? Both men and women question this question after a break up. The difference is that men question it internally or to their best buddy only. Women go on ad nauseum about whether and how to get an ex boyfriend back. This is one of the largest questions questioned by women on dating.

4.    What does he see in her? This is a question that women go on about in fantastic detail. If they see a woman who they reckon is less attractive than they are dating a guy they are interested in, they will wonder at fantastic length what he sees in her. More than a place down of the other woman, the women asking the question are insecure of their own basic desirability.

5.     Will he marry me? Women tend to worry about finding a life partner more than men do.  There is more social pressure on women to settle down and get married, and the pressure starts at an earlier age for women than it does for men. Further, women have a biological clock and feel that they will produce the healthiest children before they are 30. Therefore, the question about whether a man will marry her is a real issue for women.

Remember that women talk to their friends more intensely than men talk to their friends.  Women are more likely to talk about their relationships than are men. They have a lot more worries about the men in their life and they vocalize them to their girlfriends. That’s why it is so vital to know women on dating.

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Need Females Advice-New Girlfriend Had Hysterectomy?

Question by ArtPhotoz: Need Females Advice-New Girlfriend Had Hysterectomy?
I’m primarily asking the advice of the females on this site. I’m a guy who recently met and started dating a woman, “Samantha”.

Recently, Samantha took me aside and gave me the “There’s something you need to know about me”. She assured me that this was not the “I don’t reckon this is going to work out” speech. But Samantha told me that she had to have a hysterectomy done a small over a year ago. She is relatively young (27), never married and no kids. And of course she never will be able to bear children. She felt I needed to know that before things progressed between us. I’m her first boyfriend since her operation. Samantha told me she wouldn’t blame me if I didn’t want to continue the relationship. She said, “Because if you ever do want a child the normal way….”

Samantha hasn’t met my parents yet, but I plot in introducing them this weekend. She might be a small worried that once they find out, they may not accept her because she won’t be able to give them grandchildren.

Here’s the thing. I want to continue the relationship. Samantha is a wonderful person. She has a terrific sense of humor. She’s intelligent and can carry on a conversation. (Oh, and she’s excellent looking too–not that that matters)! She’s a lot of fun to be with and she seems to be a very caring, compassionate individual. The bottom line is this–I genuinely like Samantha and I really reckon that she might be “the one”.

So how can I re-assure Samantha that I want to continue the relationship? She seems a small insecure, but hey what woman wouldn’t be after having to have that surgery? I really like this girl and I want to tell her that it’s about her and not some kid who doesn’t exist yet anyway. We can always adopt. And how can I re-assure her that my parents aren’t like that? They’ll like her for who she is. She’s met my friends and my sister and she likes them.

Best answer:

Answer by Mother of One
You sound like a very genuine gentleman Excellent for you!

I just had a hysterectomy (I’m 37) 5 1/2 weeks ago. But my child bearing days are over. I have one son and he is all I need

The only thing you can do with “Samantha” is continue to tell her that you would be there for her and that the two of you really CAN have a family one day if you chose to adopt.

Continue to keep re-assuring her. That is all that you can do. She will have to do everything else on her own.

I wish you the best of luck.. It sounds like you really like this woman. She is so lucky to have you in her life

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Online Dating Sites on the Net

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Do you know some tips on “learn how to attract women”?

Question by William Scott: Do you know some tips on “learn how to attract women”?
I’m not trying to brag but I have a looks though not that really so handsome. I find women as a necessity of a man without her, your life is incomplete. But here’s my problem I see many girls everyday but it seems they snob me or they take me for granted.It’s like my physical appearance is not enough for them to be seduced and trap them on my snare so that i can date with them. Do you know some tips on how to attract women?or how to attract gorgeous women?If you can give advice how to attract a woman that would be fantastic and will be greatly appreciated

Best answer:

Answer by Gropey McGroperson
There are only 2 things women like: cleaning and bacon. To attract a gorgeous woman, you must cover youself in bacon, bacon grease, and bacon stout. That will attract them straight away; they’ll me stampeding towards you in hurds. Then, once you’ve gotten their attention, talk about cleaning. Doing the dishes, doing laundry, or cleaning the inch worth of crap off your toilet bowl will really get them going. Women are easily aroused when discussing anything having to do with cleaning. Whipping out some dish soap or a sponge will earn you extra points. Excellent luck!

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How to Date Transsexual Women – 50% Commission!

How to Date Transsexual Women – 50% Commission!
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Magical Tactics – How to Beat the Fear of Rejection?

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FunQ: If men ask women for advice all the time, they’ll be too sensitive & not make progress dating-wise?

Question by Rob: FunQ: If men question women for advice all the time, they’ll be too sensitive & not make progress dating-wise?
Here’s what this GUY said below a few weeks ago. I only agree with 30-50% of what he said but want to hear more about this from more men and women:

“”Some women will let you know in an obvious manner and a few may be aggressive, but most women will want you to take the initiative and lead the way. So just sack up and take the risk.

If you always question women advice on how to deal with women, you’ll never get anywhere.”"

- Y!A GWS Regular
- Joseph, if that’s the case, then what are you doing on here on GWS?
R. Gaspari – you’re very right, It’s all about being yourself and making up your mind what you want to do and then act on it and go from there.

Best answer:

Answer by Joseph S
That’s right. These wimp-like men are on here all the time and it’s usually pretty unmanly and embarrassing.

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How to Find Your Partner – 3 Things Everyone in a Relationship Should Know

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Q&A: Men advice!! Tell me the blunt truth!?

Question by anoriginalbrownie: Men advice!! Tell me the blunt truth!?
Disclaimer: I’m calling it out how it went and I know in some way maybe I was too forward but whats done is done.

The tale: We went out last Sat. After the bar go to his place and talk until 4 am, very minical making out and thats it.

He doesnt “text” til Wed with “hope youre well, whats up?” I never responded.
He “text’s” again on Thursday saying “Whoops, I guess I needed to call, maybe I dont have cojones” (referencing he has no balls as an inside joke I said about men having to cojones when dating woman.”)

I laughed it off and flirted texting him “yeah kind of wish you couldve had some.”= call me right?
After that: he just says : “Sorry to disappoint.”

So I answered with: (Where I went incorrect) I’m not into the whole cat and mouse dating game and pretty much if you want to talk to me, then you should call me if youre genuinely interested in getting to know me. told him we had a fantastic 1st date and like to get to know more but not if im a random “hello” text every 3 days. (thats the gist of my response.)

He tells me he “busy” this weekend but regardless will CALL me.

I know I was forward and now look like im super into him. Should I even bother talking to him again, thats if he calls. And did I look too desperate or silly for even saying that?

Best answer:

Answer by Disciple
He’s just not that into you

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Tips For Ending a Bad Date

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