Learn How to Identify Your Date’s Behavior and Personality Type
Why are some people excellent at dating, while others have a hard time? Do they know something you don’t, or are they just born lucky? Dating doesn’t have to be a stressful experience, if you know this one thing…your date’s behavior or personality type.
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“Kept Woman” — Looking for advice?
Question by Tiffany: “Kept Woman” — Looking for advice?
What do you reckon about this arrangement?
My boyfriend of 4 years (have known him for 10) questioned me to marry him 4 years ago, but never set a date. After a year or so, I took the ring off & gave it back to him, saying that it didn’t mean anything to me if there were no plans in sight. We were living together, but I went out and he pays my rent and all other expenses. He is perfectly content to keep this arrangement up, but I just turned 30 and feel like I am not getting any younger and if marriage is never going to be on the table then I need to go on.
Unfortunately, I sacrificed education to be a stay-at-home-mom (not his kid, but he is infertile & likes her like it’s his) all these years, so this will mean financial hardship. That’s fine and dandy, but hard to swallow because I like him and he still likes me…..it’s just that he doesn’t like me enough to jump in and marry me.
I’m tired of having 2 households. I want 1 and I want us all to be together. What would you do, or what do you reckon about the situation? I am a really excellent, faithful woman, but am at my wits’ ends.
(Forget about just moving in together…we did that on the front end and I don’t see it as moving forward)
0 seconds ago – 4 days left to answer.
Best answer:
Answer by Don M
Look after yourself and your needs, and cultivate other sources of happiness besides this relationship. That way, when the relationship disappoints you, you won’t be devoid of happiness.
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Find Your Partner – Letting Go of the Need For a Partner to Find Your True Love
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Q&A: woman who have “issues” with the father of her child/children moving on and dating other woman?
Question by one girl in a huge world: woman who have “issues” with the father of her child/children moving on and dating other woman?
I met a guy a while ago had a 1 year ancient daughter at the time, him and the mother were separated, we dated for about 6 months when the mother of his child question him to get back together. He told me what was going on and i had no problem with it. I was a bit disappointed but who was I to say anything to him.
Well within 3 months he realized that he does not want to remain in that relationship with baby moms so he tries to break it off, she gives him a very hard time and uses the guilt trip of “you must not care enough about your daughter if you are willing to leave her behind for another woman”
she called me to tell me to leave him alone because he’s now “married” (they are NOT legally married but were living together as a couple) she leaves me messages calling me a “hoe” and that i’m ruining a family?….
He has tried to tell her that he no longer wants to be with her, so she is very resentful and is now currently prohibiting him from seeing his small girl?
my question now is what should I do I don’t get involved in their problems she is the one who I believe is bitter and sore that he is no longer interested in being in a relationship with her?
when we were dating he would bring his daughter on some of out dates and once she found out that’s when she wanted to get back with him before that she had no problems with not being with him?
he is currently living with his cousin and the poor guy is so heartbroken because he hasn’t been able to see his daughter in over 2 weeks?
any advice as what I should do should i walk away or hang in there and see where this goes?
if it matters she is 19 yrs ancient
ma and him are both 23
I reckon i may be falling in like with this man. that is why i am currently debating if i should “fight” it out or let it be?…i have a saying that if someone truly belongs to you they will come back to you and you really dont have to fight for them
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Answer by Rosy
Well I reckon you should walk away. You are already doubting if you should stay or go. So that answers your question.
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“The other woman” advice, please?
Question by Lorena: “The other woman” advice, please?
Beforehand: If you’re just going to post something hateful, please don’t. Please read all 
I’ve been “the other woman” for about 3 months now. At first he was the one getting emotionally attached (we hadn’t had sex until a couple nights ago and it was only once) and I was getting annoyed because I wanted to strictly have fun. Then it went from casual lunches to calling each other every morning when we woke up (mostly him calling me since I didn’t know when he would be alone), texting throughout the day, doing random things together throughout the day, then talking at night through msn or text until one of us got tired.
He started growing on me, since I don’t want a relationship with anyone I was dedicating all this time to just him. Precisely thinking that since he’s not “available” I wouldn’t expect anything more from him without wanting to. And I accepted that he obviously has a wife who he surely has sex with, and sleeps next to every night, etc. I also told him when I would go out on a date with a guy, etc.
Well, my friends would tell me that I had to respect myself a small more. And the whole time I just kept saying, and thinking, that I did have self respect, I was choosing to do this and I wasn’t having sex with him so he wasn’t using my body. I told them, and convinced myself, that I knew he wouldn’t just leave his home for me and I didn’t want him to, that I was just having fun and I was really in control because he was infatuated with me while his wife was doing his laundry.
I got a wake up call today. When he got home from work he hung up on me and said to get online, we talked on msn for a while and the conversation got a bit dirty. He was really turned on and he had just told me something and I sent him a wink – 
– when he suddenly said “Hey baby I’m gonna go to bed to see if I have a wet dream at least since I can’t be with you. I like you, kisses” and got offline. I’m not stupid and it’s more than OBVIOUS that he got offline in such a rush and being that turned on to have sex with his wife. It wouldn’t of have made me mad if he had told me or something, but just the fact that he LIED about it makes me feel like crap. It opened my eyes to the way he thinks of me, like he lied to me because he was trying to hide the fact… like if he was fooling me. In his eyes I’m just a fool. It makes me SO mad.
I talked to my best friend about it and she told me that I just finally realized what they have been telling me all along. And.. I just don’t know how to feel. I feel used and like a complete IDIOT. I feel embarrassed and I just need somebody who’s been in this situation to help me.. or something. I don’t know..
Sorry it’s so long, but if you read it all I’d really appreciate it.
Thanks in advance guys..
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Answer by life coach
It should make you mad. Just learn & go on with your life. Live & learn!
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Teaching You the Do’s and Don’ts of Online Adult Dating
Though these are only quite few tips on how on what to do on online adult dating. Let this be helpful to on finding you the right dates and maybe for your future companions.
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2 cliches”falling for my best friend”&”i`m the other woman” unbiased advice please?
Question by lost: 2 cliches”falling for my best friend”&”i`m the other woman” unbiased advice please?
(this is probably gonna be long..im aplogizing and warning you beforehand…so please dont complain..)
and also…i know i deserve all of this heartache im sure..i cant blame anyone but myself, but i wouldnt take any of it back…i couldnt
but i am lost now for advice,
im biased in regards to his emotions anymore ,regardless of how long ive known him or close weve been,
“justin” has been in my life since i was 4..he was 5 years older than me and was friends with my sister..weve kept in contact over the years but nothing more than a ‘howve you been, hows your mom?’
within the past few years thats changed though,
hes somehow become my best friend, one of the few people who really gets me and i just really delight in being around..
hes not worried to get competetive with me, he treats me the way i want to be, like a small sister nearly,
justins been married for a few years now, and when i say that…dont reckon its what it sounds like…its an entirely sanctimonious union..
they break up constantly, because she never really liked the thought of being with ‘just him’ in the physical department.
i dont know him at all why he stays, shes a horrible mother, and a more than lousy wife, let alone girlfriend..
(and no this isnt just me..this comes from alot of others, i just cant help believe it now, credible sources, such as his family members, our closest friends, his best friend even)
she doesnt treat him the way he deserves, and this life hes living is eating away at his heart,
i made the mistake,
i couldnt help it, but we became intimate..
this went on, off and on for about a year, hed always end up back with her
it didnt fully bother me, i was kind of at the same point of lack-of-emotion towards intimacy, and thought it was cool that ‘hey, my really excellent buddy and i have an extra way of bonding now..and were cool about it’
we had a complete and honest communication about it all…if i wanted to start dating someone, id tell him..wed take a break on that side of ‘us’
things seemed to be working out with them 2? wed take a break
hed talk to me about her..and i was the only one supportive of her..i even yelled at him a few times for seeing me when he was heartbroken over her
‘i`m only human’ hed answer.
well…enough people have me convinced that shes horrible for him…im convinced myself…because it only took a month or 2 of him talking about her, for me to yell at him.
just stop..shes never gonna change justin, and thats all i can say cuz you probably reckon im biased.
3 weeks ago, the ring was at home, a smile was on his face, and he kissed me in front of all of our friends at our weekly card game.
all he could say was how excellent it felt to be free to finally do what hes wanted to do..
we went home, and it was like magic,,,he wasnt my buddy anymore
and i realized i was falling for him…the way he kissed me, it was different..and i thought he was for me too..
the things he said, the way he acted,
he even said that he wanted to see what kind of a mother i was…he knew i dont bring men around my child unless im serious about dating them and having them stick around..
he knows all this, and questions me to bring my daughter to the park the next day with his..
that playdate never came…the week after that…i was livid after a few hours into cards..he was nonchalant, as if nothing had happened…just ‘my buddy’
he realized something was incorrect, and he knew it was him, so we left early and we went back to my house.
he claimed he didnt remember it!
we had shared 1 pitcher of beer between the 2 of us, theres no way he was that intoxicated..
he apologized for it, and for hurting me..but then he started saying the same things!(obviously he did remember) only with more reluctancy..he proposed another playdate for our daughters (which im realizing now probably isnt a excellent thought until he and i get past this)
the problem is…she only wants him back, to stick around as a husband, and not just as a babysitter,when she realizes she might lose him…
ive dealt with this so many times before..
when she catches wind from our friends that he and i are hanging out
she goes in a fit, makes it so hes not allowed to go -anywhere- with -any- of his friends, and is up his ass,
once shes satisfied that hes not gonna ever leave her ‘alone’ with the kids, she goes right back to her ways, making out with random guys at the bar,(shes even come on to me!!!) living the life of a young college co-ed while her incredible husband is at home taking care of the children.
i know what hes doing right now, hes falling for it again, she caught wind of what happened the other night, him kissing me..
and she couldnt let it happen..
she apologized to him and begged him to take her back
they were nearly completely finished!
justin was at his final wits end and seemed so accomplished,
he seemed so ready and final…he wasnt gonna place up with her crap anymore..he was going to better himself.they had been d
Best answer:
Answer by Brigitte
Oh my gosh honey.. that is baaddd…. i don’t reckon i can give you much advice, because i reckon seriously, if you want a solution, whatever it may be to this issue.. you need to see someone professional OR.. just leave it.. just leave everything, cold turkey.. leave him, make sure you never see or speak to him again, promise yourself to get out of this mess.. I know it seems like he may be in like with you, and wants to leave her and all the rest.. and that may very well be the case, but.. the thing is.. he hasn’t..
and you need to choose whether or not you are going to be that person to wait around for him, how ever long he will take.. or, if you’re better than that, and go on with your life.. with what is best for you and your daughter. You need to consider your daughter aswell, although she may not have met him yet, she must sense that you are going through a rough time..
That’s just my opinion, obviously i don’t know your situation, but ..yea..
Just to make it clear, by me suggesting for you to see someone professional, i am by no means saying that you aren’t well mentally.. lol i hope you didn’t get that impression, i hope it all works out for you.. =)
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Top 7 First Date Ideas For Dating in London
Going on a first date can be intimidating. Worries like what you will talk about, if there are any common interests, and a variety of other thoughts may have you worried. One thing that you should not have to worry about is where to take your date for the first time. Here are a few thoughts about where to take your date to ensure an enjoyable first date.
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Q&A: Dating the “older woman”?
Question by Nodor: Dating the “older woman”?
So there is a woman at my daughters day car ehtta I have a bit of an “in” with. So, once the weather gets a small better we are going to get together so our daughters can have a play date.
I wouldn’t mind having a “date” with her without the kids. I know that she is single, and we get along pretty well. I will have more on this once we have a play date or two, but I am just looking for tips on dating an older woman. She is 31ish, I am 26.
Any and all advice is welcome.
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Answer by Super Ruper
Five years does not make her an ‘older woman’.
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Words can be powerful. But, combine these two other techniques and you’ll magnify what you say ten fold.
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Smart Advice for Dating Women That Don’t Make Sense
Smart Advice for Dating Women That Don’t Make Sense
I’m going to start off this whole shebang by giving you my take on women in general.
I know, I know. Every woman is a unique creature. But women have more commonalties than they have differences. So let’s start with what I reckon they have in common and then we’ll go on to how they differ. (The thoughts that I’m about to share with you here are from my own research, testing in the real world, and personal analysis.)
For most men, a woman is like a Chinese puzzle inside of a brain twister.
Much of their behavior makes no sense at all (to men).
If there’s one thing that I’m clear about, it’s that most women THINK differently than most men, and most women want different things than most men.
This is hard for many men to grasp or know, but it’s right. And the sooner you get a handle on what’s going on here, the sooner you’ll become more successful with women.
Let’s start by comparing what men and women are interested in.
Have you ever stopped to reckon about what entertains women as a group compared to what entertains men as a group? Women buy Cosmopolitan magazines, watch soap operas, and read romance novels. Men buy Playboy, watch sports, and read the paper. Hey, wait a minute here! What’s in those Cosmos, soaps, and romance novels? And why are women so attracted to them?
And why is it that when men try to watch a soap opera or read a romance novel all they can say is, “I don’t get it…”?
I’ll tell you why. It’s because women’s brains are wired differently from men’s brains. That’s why.
And by telling you about what attracts women’s attention, I’ve also given you a clue about how to attract them to YOU.
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Ever Wonder How to Increase Your Sex Appeal?
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Dating Outside Your Religion and the Bible
Dating someone of another faith can be a hard situation even when the couple is deeply united. King Solomon was known as the wisest of the wise and ruled with incredible foresight and intelligence. But his like for a pagan woman cost him his sanity. The tale of Sampson and Delilah is one of particular interest when it comes to inter-faith relationships.
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Prospective date….”loves women”..may be gay?
Question by Kristen: Prospective date….”likes women”..may be gay?
I am plotting on going on a date with this guy. I have never met him in person yet, we have just been talking. He is successful, educated, and very excellent looking…..One thing. He talks like he is gay (and not just a small, ALOT) . Not that I have anything against gay people, he just seems very feminine . Has anyone ever been in this situation or have any advice? I don’t really know what I am looking for, just someone else’s point of view I guess. Thanks in advance!
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Answer by Raz9Caz
Try to sleep with him, if he says yes then he is not gay, if he says no, then he is gay.
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Dating Tips For Men – What Not to Do on the First Date
So you have a first date? Every first date with the woman is a really different experience. You don’t really know what to expect and you worry about whether or not things are going to go smoothly and if there will be any form of sexual attraction between the both of you.
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Common Misconceptions About Attracting Sexy Men
Finding the right guy for you can be a long and hard task. But, there are some things you can do to make it go quicker. Sure, you can cruise through a bar or some online site and pick up “someone”. But, just because you can get a person to notice you does not mean they are what you truly want.
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Need advice from women “please”?
Question by seldring2000: Need advice from women “please”?
I have been dating this wonderful women for about 3 months (she is newly divorced since last May and she contacted me…. She is also a long time family friend). We have spent alot of time together and have even taken our children on a weekend get-aways. Our kids go to the same school. She recently started a new job and it seems like she does not have time for me. I tried talking to her about it, but she indicates that she is just stressed out since she has a new job and her daughter started school. Even some of my text messages go un answered that you reckon would get a response. My question is should I just back off and see what happens? What should I do? I would do anything for this girl…
A small more…. usually we talk or text throughout the day. Since I posted this question I chose to lay off and not contact her today. Well she called just to see how my day was going and we talked for about 30 minutes. Maybe she is just busy and stressed. I know I sound like a idiot, but I have been out of the dating scene for 9 years. Any help from the females would be appreciated.
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Answer by Seehaze J
Just relax, it seems like things are going well. don’t crowd her and delight in yourself
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Calling Men – Why He Doesn’t Call When He Says He Will
How often has a man that you have just met or are dating told you that he will call you and then he doesn’t? This is a common issue for many women during dating and early relationships and a source of mistrust and irritation between the sexes.
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Q&A: Why are what women say, and what they actually think, so different?
Question by someguysomewhere: Why are what women say, and what they really reckon, so different?
I used to follow dating advice from women “make sure you call her”, “women just want someone who likes and cares for them”, “looks are reasonably unimportant”, “dont treat them terribly”. None of this worked. Then I listened to my best mate who said “dont call them” “do exactly what you want to do” “intimidate other men infront of them” “never pay for anything” and everything went well. I want to open up the following statement for comment: Women want two men – a caring, loving cuckold for “quality time” and compliments, and an arrogant, strong excellent looking guy for meaningless sex. You cannot have these two in one, and i reckon this is because on a deep level, women want to have strong, tough babies to give them a fighting chance of survival, and a dumb bloke to bring the kids up! This is why, when women cheat on their partners, they frequently say “it doesnt count because there was no feelings involved” Whereas a man would see this as the ultimate insult. Thoughts please
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Answer by beauxbenu
I don’t know. I would start by saying that what I say to you you interpret. Meaning that I say what I mean, but you only hear what I say, not what I mean. The closer two people are in background the simpler it is I suppose.
I feel the same as you do, but about men. It seems that they want someone to pamper them and do for them, but, in the end, they really want the sex kitten that can’t control herself and cats around on them. I too see this as the ultimate insult.
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Use These Tips to Flirt With Hot Women and Build Up Your Collection of Their Underwear
Look you can be the smartest, most amusing, richest and most incredible guy in the world. None of that matters if you don’t know how to interact with women. It’s like the ancient sales adage, “You can have the greatest product in the world, but no one will buy if they don’t know about it.”
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Q&A: Why am I so bitter towards women, and why am I stopping to care about “dating”?
Question by beatjunkie84: Why am I so bitter towards women, and why am I stopping to care about “dating”?
I have been ripped apart by my two ex gf’s. They both screwed me over in different ways and I have not been the same since. My last ex was a small over a year ago (end of college), and I haven’t met a girl I have been interested in since I went back from college to my hometown (los angeles). I have grown bitter and say mean things when I drink. I am a very nice guy and do not know why this is happening. I have stopped caring about “dating” women and havent gotten any in a while. I am still horny but I am not the type of person who can just meet a random girl and bring her home with me. And since i’m not interested in dating (or just havent met a girl i like)….i’ve been left with nothing! I am running out of thoughts. I dont know what to do. I get extremely nervous around women I like but hold a bitterness towards them still. I reckon every girl will screw me over and dont even want to take a chance. I need advice, i need a change.
by the way…i am completely over my ex’s (or so i believe)…took about 6-8 months to get over her…but i did
Best answer:
Answer by Joanna
not all women are the same, we have different personalities. start a new.
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Q&A: It has been 8 years, Advice on dating?I don’t wach sport, all i know is being a chef. What do i tell to”women”
Question by pchowyuen: It has been 8 years, Advice on dating?I don’t wach sport, all i know is being a chef. What do i tell to”women”
Best answer:
Answer by rie-rie
I’m sure a lot of women would be pleased that you don’t watch sport and can cook. just tell them that.
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Q&A: Is a good dating advice for women “play hard to get at” necessarily right?
Question by Jester666: Is a excellent dating advice for women “play hard to get at” necessarily right?
Is it really right that this is a excellent tip? Or will it make the girl confused on what to do..?
Best answer:
Answer by irish_matt1971
yes i like it when there is a challenge
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The Mistake Men Make on Dating Time
The men can improve their experience that multiple date avoiding these mistakes. Simple.
1) Acting as a Fussy:
Now would be being questioned what does fussy exactly means?? When I say fussy that signifies being a baby of crying in the front of find women. Do not act as it so that the woman sympathizes with to and you will win her attention. Creamer that will have sympathy with you but OR never she will collect similar this. Then act as a man and the stops that permit its car estimates go itself.
2) Being Centered in You Same AND not “She”
This is another large problem with men that boast from to itself generally or they are centered in only itself. This carries to not less then a disaster.. The sexy women want care of attention with men dating and they want to be the center of their focus so them not giving appropriate attention and focusing only in you same does women feel disregarded. Try to focus more in her and to do it feels that has just intercessors in her and wants to know more about her.
3) Speaking too much about Its Former one:
It finalizes former thing that you want to discuss about of with its girl is about its. !! The women on dating website despise simply to know how his former one was and how did her seems to and to what said about you. They placed he discusses about singles chat rooms his former one or his past. Never has he directed a discussion to a former point that you will have to speak of his. Always he try to avoid such themes that are able make a potential problem for you.
4) Doing too many questions:
When in a date tries not to do too many too early neither too many questions one after another. Recall that is in a men dating and you want to do it as comfortable and friendly like could be. Doing too much question they will carry to the confusion and can produce at times undesirable results. Can question questions later. The rush place!!!
