No longer “the other woman”, but NOT “the new girlfriend” either. What to do???
Question by oldsoul_newera: No longer “the other woman”, but NOT “the new girlfriend” either. What to do???
To make a long tale small, a bit of background…
I was, for lack of a better term, “the other woman” for 9 months. His 3 year relationship with his girlfriend was very unstable when i came long. I didn’t mind my status, wasn’t looking for anything serious. Acutally, wasn’t looking for anything at all. We were friends/neighbors who just happened to have incredible, unbelievable sex! Anyway, after 9 months of “twice a week”, SHE found out & they broke up.
We continued, and our feelings grew deeper. But,knowing he’d just come out of a 3 yr relationship, I wasn’t about to question him for anything serious. And although I was definately falling in like, I played it cool. I told him he was free to see other women because when/if we “commited” to each other, I wanted him to “want it” too. Well, another 9 months have passed & I’m still NOT his “girlfriend”. He has told me he likes me twice. For me, he’s “THE ONE”.
Should I tell him times up. Commit or quit?
Answer by blue:eyes RETURNS!!
Then see how he reacts.
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